Amazing Creations

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We are watching Kap’s amazing stories last night. The featured stories are about Life. The show presented how a fish called Goby climbed a rock to get over the fresh water and lay eggs in there. The show also presented the mutual relationships of a Barbel fish and a Hippopotamus. The Barbel fish fed on the parasites that are on the Hippo’s body. It is so fascinating to watch how the Hippo opens its mouth for the Barbel can clean its mouth and eat the left over food in there! :)

We also have seen how small fish protects each other from big fish like sharks. It is so touching to watch how a daddy clown fish takes care of the newborn eggs in the protection of the coral reefs! I cannot help but to remember the movie, “Finding Nemo” as I watch the daddy clown fish!

The sea could be a dangerous place but its inhabitants have learned how to survive in the big sea! God’s power is so overwhelming by simply looking on those sea creatures, and the way they mingle with each other. :)

Geography reports that the earth is composed of 25% land and 75% water. Men could have located Titanic but the ocean is so vast that there could be more things, creatures or even civilizations that are hidden from men like the Atlantis. Many would say that it is just a fictional civilization, but the enormous water that surrounds our land, would just be hiding Atlantis!

Well, only God knows whether He will allow us to discover the underwater or the universe’s secrets! What is important is that we have known His powers and His love for us; that we should always be faithful and grateful for all the wonders around us!

Ciao! :)

The Art of Acceptance

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I sat on one of the pews in the church yesterday. I have not heard the mass on that schedule for a long time. I came in about 5 minutes earlier. The priest and the church servants are already lining up outside the church, getting ready for the processional. As the commentator finished introducing the priest to lead the mass, the choir started singing the entrance hymn.

He really plays the piano so well. As I listen to the soothing sound of the choir’s voices and the music that accompany their song, my memory began to go back in time. I have known him since I was 18. I have been part of their family not because of any romantic relationship we had but his brothers and sister and his parents treated me as part of them. I remember spending a new year with them. I have witnessed him cry and got broken hearted. I was his silent absorber. :(

I have cried because of him a long time ago. I had fallen in love many times after him but those are all long gone and forgotten. But, he remained in my heart. The last serious talk that we had was before he got married.

I told him that I’m going to get married too because he’s getting married already. He told me that I have a bright future ahead. He said that I should take care of my family and give my mother a good life. He told me not to get married yet. That talk happened about 5 years ago. :(

The Lord knows everything that is inside my heart. As I kneel down and pray, a reflection came into me. God showed me the three men I have love in my life. Two of them were just an unrequited love only; or what my Ninang Cher called as a “One Way Street” love. God showed me my pianist, my TM and my first love. As I looked each one of them, I told the Lord that in reality I would have picked my first love, because he knows and accepts me as I am. However, we have many differences especially when it comes to faith. Then, I whispered to God that if I would be given a chance, to choose whom I would want to be with for the rest of life, then it would be my pianist.

The Lord answered back; He told me that I have known him for more than a decade. My pianist had the chance on me many years ago. The Lord told me that if he has a feelings for me then, then he should have taken the chance to let me know about it. He is now married with two sons. The Lord made me realized that if he didn’t love me then, he would never will, especially now. :(

As I end my prayers, I felt the hurt, but also felt freedom. I learned to set myself free from that unrequited love; a liberation that I should have done a long time ago. I should have accepted that truth about five years ago.

In our lives, we have a lot of hopes and experiences that we should have let go a long time ago. Instead, we continue to hold on to those things that hinders us to move on. I know that it is not easy to let go of something that you are hoping to happen or to get. But, it could also be the reason why we’re not able to notice the better things given to us instead of it.

Learning to accept the things or people we can never have will make our lives easier and happier. The process may not be that easy though. Cry if you would but always remember and believe that God has prepared the best for us. That He would reveal His gift in His own sweet time.

Just have faith. God loves us!

Ciao! :)

Faith

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I am experiencing financial difficulties now a days. There are so much debts to pay but the money I have is not enough to pay for all the bills. I really don’t know how or whom I can borrow money from, but I am not losing any hope. I keep my faith and spirit high. I believe that help from God will come somewhere.

While I am taking a rest, I go through the pages of Chicken Soup for the Soul. I stumbled on this article. I hope that this will make you feel secured. God loves us!

A Creed For Those Who Have Suffered

I asked God for strength, that I might achieve..
I was made weak, that I might learn humbly to obey..
I asked for health, that I might do great things..
I was given infirmity, that I might do better things..
I asked for riches, that I might be happy..
I was given poverty, that I might be wise..
I asked for power, that I might have the praise of men..
I was given weakness, that I might feel the need of God..
I asked for all things, that I might enjoy life..
I was given life, that I might enjoy all things..
I got nothing I asked for - but everything I had hoped for. Almost despite myself,
my unspoken prayers were answered.
I am, among men, most richly blessed!

Ciao! :)

God, open my Eyes

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I found a book for Antoinette while I am in search for Nancy Drew’s Mystery Stories book number 1. My eyes were caught by the book’s design and title. :) It was only this afternoon when I was able to browse the pages of the book. I am glad that I got this one for her. :)

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The book is called Precious Moments of Inspiration: Verses by Helen Steiner Rice and Illustratios by Samuel J. Butcher. It’s full of very encouraging lines that would really uplift our spirits especially during the lowest point of our lives. Let me give you a sample.. Hope this will enlighten your weary heart.. :)

God open my eyes so I may see and feel Your presence close to me. Give me strenght for my stumbling feet as I battle the crowd on life’s busy street, and widen the vision of my unseeing eyes so in passing faces I’ll recognize not just stranger, unloved and unknown,  but a friend with a heart that is much like my own. Give me perception to make me aware that scattered profusely on life’s thoroughfare are the best gifts of God that we daily pass by as we look at the world with an unseeing eye.

Ciao! :)

On Marriage!

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This is cute and inspiring! Read on.. :)

Marriage

There was once a man and woman who had been married for more than 60 years. They had shared everything. They had talked about everything. They kept no secrets from each other except that the old woman had a shoebox in the top of her closet that she cautioned
her husband never to open or ask her about.

For all of these years, he had never thought about the box, but one day the little old woman got very sick and the doctor said she would not recover. In trying to sort out their affairs, the
little old man took down the shoebox and took it to his wife’s bedside.

She agreed that it was time that he should know what was in the box. When he opened it, he found two crocheted doilies and a stack of money totaling $25,000. He asked her about the contents. “When we were to be married, she said, “my grandmother told me the secret of a happy marriage was to never argue. She told me that if I ever got angry with you, I should just keep quiet and crochet a doily.”

The little old man was so moved, he had to fight back tears. Only two precious doilies were in the box. She had only been angry with him two times in all those years of living and loving. He
almost burst with happiness. “Honey,” he said “that explains the doilies, but what about
all of this money? Where did it come from?” “Oh,” she said, “that’s the money I made from selling the doilies. 

 

Nice… What do I do when I get mad with honey? Well, I just sing and read books! :)

Ciao! :) 

Gold Wrapping Paper

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I received this from a friend who had a choice to make. It said that I had a choice to make too. The choice are to send to other friends or not. I know that this will be able to reach a lot of people if I post it here, so I did.

The story goes that some time ago a mother punished her five year old daughter for wasting a roll of expensive gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and she became even more upset when the child used the gold paper to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift box to her mother the next morning and then said, “This is for you, Momma.” The mother was embarrassed by her earlier over reaction, but her anger flared again when she opened the box and found it was empty. She spoke to her daughter in a harsh manner.

“Don’t you know, young lady, when you give someone a present there’s supposed to be something inside the package?” She had tears in her eyes and said, “Oh, Momma, it’s not empty! I blew kisses into it until it was full.”

The mother was crushed. She fell on her knees and put her arms around her little girl, and she begged her forgiveness for her thoughtless anger. An accident took the life of the child only a short time later, and it is
told that the mother kept that gold box by her bed for all the years of her life.

Whenever she was discouraged or faced difficult problems she would open the box and take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

In a very real sense, each of us, as human beings, have been given a Golden box filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children, family, friends and GOD. There is no more precious possession anyone could hold.

 

I really had goosebumps while reading this email. This is very timely to me.  I hope this one did a something good for you. You are free to share this through email or post it on your site.

God loves us very much! I am holding on it for all the days of my life. :)

Ciao! :)

A Happy Ending

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It has been a week since Chichi died. My sister is still grieving though. I must admit that I also miss our “tough guy”.

Talking about “ending”, I wasn’t able to share my thoughts about the recently concluded teleserye of Channel 2, “May Bukas Pa”. The said teleserye was based on a Spanish story, Marcelino Pan Y Vino. A day before the said teleserye aired its last episode, I research the story of Marcelino; what’s it about and how it ended. In the story, Marcelino was carried by Jesus on His arms, where He asked him to sleep. It was a scene where Marcelino left the world and joined Jesus in His paradise. Since, May Bukas Pa was patterned with it, I know that Santino will die in the series. I decided not to watch the ending because it will really make me cry. I was telling my sisters that, since ABS-CBN did a lot of changes in May Bukas Pa (far from what Marcelino Pan Y Vino), they should have at least do a little twist on its ending. Well, they actually did! ? Good job!

I was able to watch the scene where Bro (Jesus) took Santino to a place that I want to go to as well. He introduced him to His own mother, Mary and fulfilled Santino’s greatest wish, to see his mother. In spite of all his hardships he was blessed and was given sometime to be with his beloved mother. He was given a chance to be with his father as well.

To top it all, I am glad that Santino didn’t really die at all. He was just in a deep sleep, enjoying the company of Bro and his parents. ?

I know that Santino has been truly love by his foster fathers, the priests, and most especially by his adoptive father, Father Jose. If I am not mistaken, Dominique Ochoa who played Father Jose, gave Zaijan (Santino) an xbox 360 for his birthday. Wow!

May Bukas Pa taught us not to give up and always be faithful. God would have not created tomorrow if He meant today to be perfect. We may face many challenges in our lives, and we just find ourselves crying. It’s okay to cry, what is important is that we never forget to call on to God, who is always loving, forgiving and caring. He will never leave us.

Here are the 2 last scenes of May Bukas Pa..

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This episode is so sweet…

I had goosebumps when I watch this!

Ciao! :)

Lessons are learned through Pain

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Some Lessons are learned through pain…

Sometimes, our visions clear only after our eyes are washed with tears…

Sometimes we have to be broken so we can be whole again…

If God meant the day to be perfect, He would not have invented tomorrow…

So, don’t worry if today wasn’t perfect because you still have tomorrow…

And, if there is anything in your heart that feels right, go after it no matter what it takes…

God bless you…

Ciao! :)

One More Gift

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My family heard mass last Sunday at 11AM. We decided to hear mass early for we will go to Pasig City Rainforest in the afternoon to play badminton and to tour the kids on its mini zoo. It was Communion time and the choir sang a song that really strike my heart.

I was watching the news the other night,  and was saddened about the terrible earthquake that hit the country Haiti. Up until today, there are still deceased bodies which have not been recovered yet. I’ve seen in the news how the people fight over the food and water. I heard that they are experiencing food and water shortage in there. While the choir continues to sing One More Gift, I told God, that there is nothing I can do but to pray for those people. I am not rich and I will not be able to be there personally. Yet, I believe that my sincere prayers for their healing and recovery will be heard and answered. A prayer not only for that country but for the world.

In times calamities and challenges, we should always look at the positive side. God is always loving and forgiving. He is always caring. I believe that His reason why the world experienced so many troubles and challenges is for all of us to be united. That in spite of all world’s problems, He still would want to peace to prevail.

In situations like this, I always remember the lesson given in the movie Evan Almighty. When you pray before God to be strong, what He gives is the opportunity to  be strong. So, when we pray to God for peace, He gives us the opportunity to have peace and we should always grab that opportunity. :)

If there is one more gift
I ask of you lord
It would be peace here on earth.
As gentle as your children’s laughter
All around,all around.

Your people have grown weary
From living in confusions
When will we realized
That neither heaven is at peace,
When we live not in peace.

If there is one more gift
I ask of you lord
It would be peace here on earth.
As gentle as your children’s laughter
All around,all around.

Grant me serenity,within
For the confusions around
Are mere reflections of
What’s within,what’s within me.

If there is one more gift
I ask of you lord
It would be peace here on earth.
As gentle as your children’s laughter
All around,all around.

Ciao! :)

Developing a Powerful Sales Personality

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I resigned in my previous company because of Sales. I never thought that I would end up another job that requires good selling skills as well. I received this email from my friend and hopefully you’ll be able to get some tips like I did. Read on.. :)

Becoming excellent in closing sales is an inside job. It begins within you. In sales, your personality is more important than your product knowledge. It is more important than your sales skills. It is more important than the product or service that you are selling. In fact, your personality determines fully 80 percent of your sales success.

Take Charge of Your Life
The biggest mistake you can make is to ever think that you work for anyone but yourself. From the time you take your first job until the day you retire, you are self employed. You are the president of your own entrepreneurial corporation, selling your services into the marketplace at the highest price possible. You have only one employee—yourself. Your job is to sell the highest quality and quantity of your services throughout your working life.

View Yourself as Self-Employed
In a study done in New York some years ago, researchers found that the top 3 percent of people in every field looked upon themselves as self-employed. They treated the company as if it belonged to them personally. They saw themselves as being in charge of every aspect of their lives. They took everything that happened to their company personally, exactly as if they owned 100 percent of the stock.

Winners Versus Losers
The difference between winners and losers is quite clear. Winners always accept responsibility for their actions. Losers never do but instead always have some kind of explanation for why they are doing poorly.

Don’t Waste Time
The average salesperson today wastes a fully 50 percent of his or her working time. According to research, he comes in a little later, works a little slower, and leaves a little earlier. He spends most of his working time in idle chitchat with coworkers, personal business, reading the paper, drinking coffee, and surfing the internet. Winners arrive a little earlier, work a little harder, and stay a little later.

Develop Empathy and Understanding
Top salespeople have high levels of empathy, i.e., they really care about their customers. Ambition, the desires to achieve, combined with empathy, the genuine caring for the well-being of your customers, are the twin keys to top sales performance. A person with empathy makes every effort to get inside the mind and heart of the customer and to understand his situation and needs.

Keep Your Word
Top-selling salespeople are impeccably honest with themselves and with others. There is no substitute for honesty in selling. Earl Nightingale once said, “If honesty did not exist, it would have to be invented as the surest way of getting rich.”

Do What you Love to Do
One of the secrets of success in selling is for you to do what you love to do. Top salespeople love what they are selling. They believe in it passionately. They will defend it and argue over it. They will talk about it day and night. When they go to bed, they think about their product. When they wake up in the morning, they can hardly wait to talk to prospects about it. Look at the top salespeople in the very best companies, and you’ll find that these people are fanatical, about their products and services.

Action Exercise
Resolve today, that you are going to become one of the hardest-working professional salespeople in your team; start earlier; work harder; stay later.

I hope that these “tips” will help up develop the sales person within us. On a personal note, I believe that empathy would make us a good seller. We should always put ourselves into our customer’s shoes and feel what they feel. Thanks Ime for this email. :)

Ciao! :)

Touch

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I was arranging our bookshelf yesterday and found a Reader’s Digest dated February 1998. I sat a while and browsed through the pages trying to find something I could share with you. Then, my fingers stopped at Points to Ponder. I found this “thought” which was shared by George Howe Colt. It is about “Touch.” He says:

Touch is a primal need, as necessary for growth as food, clothing or shelter. From the nuzzles and caresses between mother and infant that form the foundation of the self, to the holding of hands between a son and his dying father that allows a final letting go, touch is our most intimate and powerful form of communication. Michelangelo knew this: when he painted God extending a hand toward Adam on the ceiling of the Sistine Chapel, he chose touch to depict the gift of life.

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Michelangelo’s painting at the Sistine Chapel

Very inspiring isn’t it? Touch is a very effective form of comfort. A touch from someone whom you know cares for you would mean a lot, especially if you are going through a difficulty. Without saying a word, just by a simple touch, you would feel safe and secured.

Ciao! :)

Food for thought: As Within, So Without

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Aristotle said that the ultimate aim or purpose or human life is to achieve your own happiness. You are the very happiest when what you are doing on the outside is congruent with your values on the inside. When you are living in complete alignment with that which you consider to be good, right, and true, you will automatically feel happy and positive about yourself and your world.

Know What You Really Want
Stephen Covey once said, “Be sure that, as you scramble up the ladder of success, it is leaning against the right building.” Many people work hard to achieve goals that they think they want only to find, at the end of the day, they get no joy or satisfaction from their accomplishments. They ask, “Is this all there is?” This occurs when the outer accomplishment is not in harmony with your inner values. Don’t let this happen to you.

Trust Your Intuition
Self-trust is the foundation of greatness. Self-trust comes from listening to your intuition, to your “still, small voice” within. Men and women begin to become great when they begin to listen to their inner voices and absolutely trust that they are being guided to a higher power each step of the way. Living in alignment with your true values is the royal road to self-confidence, self-respect, and personal pride. In fact, almost every human problem can be resolved by returning to values.
Watch Your Behavior
How can you tell what your values really are? The answer is simple. You always demonstrate your true values in your actions and especially your actions under pressure. Whenever you are forced to choose between one behavior and another you will always act consistent with what is most important and valuable to you at that moment. Values, in fact, are organized in a hierarchy. You have a series of values, some of them very intense and important and some of them weaker and less important. One of the most important exercises you can engage in to determine who you really are and what you really want is to organize your values by priority. Once you are clear about the relative important of your values, you can then organize your outer life so that it is in alignment with them.

Determine Your Heart’s Desire
The spiritual teacher Emmet Fox wrote about the importance of discovering your “heart’s desire.” What is your heart’s desire? As a friend of mine asks, “What do you want to be famous for?” What words would you like people to use to describe you when you are not there? What would you like someone to say about you at your funeral? What kind of reputation do you have today? What kind of reputation would you like to have sometime in the future?

Your Past is Not Your Future
Many people had difficult experiences growing up. They fell on hard times and became associated with the wrong people. Some were convicted and sent to prison for crimes. But at a certain point in life, they decided to change. They thought seriously about what kind of person they wanted to be known as, and thought of, in the future. They decided to change their lives by changing the values that they lived by. By making these decisions and sticking to them, they changed their lives. Remember, it doesn’t matter where you’re coming from; all that really matters is where you’re going.

Action Exercise
Describe your picture of an ideal person, the person you would most want to be if you had no limitations.

Ciao! :)

 

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